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Perhaps this one very attractive woman in her mid-40’s said it best: My boyfriend (at the time) had a temporary bout of E. and became the greatest and most considerate lover I’ve ever had.
Then his function eventually returned and he became a ‘dick’ again, looking for other places to put it. Invariably, these women share how the impotent men in their lives tend to be far more considerate in the bedroom.
Unfortunately, this penile-centric approach to lovemaking does not always bode well for female partners.
Especially those who are in their post-childbearing years and often require a great deal more “warm up” time than some men are willing to give.
And that’s when this meeting took an interesting turn…First, some back story, before we get to that unexpected twist that happened at the end of my talk.
As a fully impotent cancer survivor with a female partner, we have been speaking to men, women and couples about sex, intimacy and relationships for years.
Given that our own relationship fulfillment (emotional and sexual) continues to be beyond our most ardent dreams, we are always curious to see if other couples where the man has impotency are having a similar experience. Every woman we have interviewed over the years who has been with a man with E. or full impotence –and who has not slipped into despair or victimhood, describes them as “The world’s greatest lovers!
” Okay, I know, this sounds very self-serving given my condition, but stay with me and you will see why this response is not that unusual.
It is one of the biggest dating sites with over 90 million registered users across the globe. OKCupid is one of the most popular dating sites and is free to sign up initially.Which brings us full circle to the end of my talk in Ohio…After the talk an attractive woman in her early 50’s came up to me to speak in private.During the talk she had been very attentive but not willing to risk asking a question or make a comment.Please, don’t be shy, let us know by commenting here. Online dating has grown in popularity to the point where there is almost no social stigma attached to it.